Whether you’re participating in a discussion, attending an event, exploring new ideas, or forming connections, we ask that you always approach your interactions with these core principles in mind:

1. Consent is Active, Ongoing, and Enthusiastic

• Consent must be given freely, clearly, and actively.

• Silence, hesitation, or lack of resistance is not consent.

• Consent can be withdrawn at any time, for any reason.
  When it’s withdrawn, stop immediately — no explanations are required.

• Always check in. Always respect a “no” without question.

2. Negotiation is Essential

• For any discussions that involve sharing experiences, offering advice, or arranging play, we strongly encourage clear negotiation first.

• Define boundaries, safe words, comfort levels, and expectations.

• Ask questions. Confirm understanding. Make no assumptions.

3. Respecting Limits

• Everyone has different comfort levels, boundaries, and triggers.

• Never shame or pressure someone for their limits, kinks, interests, or disinterests.

• Discussions involving edge play, medical play, psychological play, or other high-risk activities should be approached with extra sensitivity and explicit content warnings.

4. Safety First: Risk-Aware Practices

• We encourage everyone to practice RACK (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink) and SSC (Safe, Sane, and Consensual) principles.

• Inform yourself about the risks involved in any activities you participate in or discuss.

• Share accurate information, especially when giving advice on physical practices.

5. Mental, Emotional, and Physical Well-Being Matter

• Kink and fetish exploration can bring powerful emotions. Aftercare and emotional check-ins are important, even for online discussions that touch on sensitive subjects.

• Be mindful that your words can have lasting impacts, even when intended positively.

6. Accountability and Community Support

• We are committed to supporting a community where individuals feel safe to speak up if something is wrong.

• If a consent violation occurs within the community, we encourage those affected to report it.

• Bijou Essentials staff will treat all concerns seriously, discreetly, and respectfully.

✨ Final Thoughts

Consent is not a one-time agreement; it’s an ongoing conversation.
Safety is not the absence of risk; it’s the informed navigation of it together.

At Bijou Essentials, your autonomy, safety, and dignity come first — always.

Thank you for helping us create a community where exploration and respect go hand in hand. 💎